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Goals and Solutions

We then come up with any solutions that are needed for the concerns we discussed and set goals for the upcoming week. Solutions are important as they help children problem-solve, and it helps them to feel accountable when they are part of figuring out the solution. When we set goals, either individually or as a family, we cheer each other on throughout the week. This builds unity and closeness between family members and helps our children feel supported.

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Chore Distribution and Allowances

At the end of the meeting, kids pick from a list of chores to do for the week. You might have sticks in a jar to choose from or cards to draw. Chores (we call them contributions) help children build skills and confidence as well as responsibility. Finally, if your family does allowances, give them out at the end of the family meeting.

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The tone of the family meeting should be positive and encouraging, and unless the family has something major to discuss, it shouldn’t last too long. This keeps kids engaged and interested and looking forward to the next meeting. A good family meeting schedule helps your family run smoothly, builds team spirit, and helps you stay connected in a busy world.

Rebecca Eanes is the bestselling author of multiple books including Positive Parenting: An Essential Guide, The Positive Parenting Workbook, and The Gift of a Happy Mother. She is the grateful mom of two boys.